Queer people are some of the strongest, most creative, and resilient people in human history. Not because oppression is noble, but because despite everything that has been done to us, we still create, love, organise, dream, and survive. We still build communities. We still hold one another through loss. We still imagine futures that many people tried to convince us we did not deserve.

one side broadly seeks to restrict, remove, or roll back rights — the other broadly seeks to protect or expand them. That is not moral equivalence. That is not “two sides of the same coin.” That is a structural difference in who gets to live safely. And when we pretend otherwise, we obscure harm.